33 GAP YEARS … I AM BACK AT UNI

Getting into my car and approaching the University of Essex for my first day back at school was daunting. It was Tuesday, 25th October 2022 and at noon, I would attend my first lecture in Journalism. My offer to join the University had only arrived on 18th October. I arrived on week 4 of the first Semester. My nerves were explosive, and my excitement of self-achievement was justified.

I spent an hour trying to login to the University Wifi. I had to locate classrooms through the internet rather than a map. What I actually needed was an real live human being to help me through this day. A Mother figure to show me what to do, like I have done for years, for my now 17-year-old son.

Simple tasks for the non-mature students were, and are, ridiculously complicated to me. The reality is, I am surrounded by young ones whose understanding of my conundrum was alien to them. I am convinced that using the internet and social media is the equivalent of brushing your teeth, showering or getting dressed for the young ones.

You will be pleased to know I did arrive at my first lesson but not at noon. I arrived ten minutes early at my official second lesson at two o’clock. It is a very proud moment when you can brush your teeth for the first time. My next step is showering and maybe moving on to getting dressed by myself.

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